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Author(s):
  • J. R. Bhatti
  • Author: J. R. Bhatti
    • ISBN:9788131761861
    • Price: Rs. 185.00
    • Pages:272
    • Imprint:Pearson Education
    • Binding:Paperback
    • Status:Available



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    Whether you are a student seeking admission to your dream institution, a graduate looking for a coveted job, or a manager wanting to progress in your career, you need to successfully develop and project your personality . In this concise yet comprehensive book, you will find expert guidance on all the involved in your quest. This lucidly written book explains basic concepts, provides review exercises and offers self-help tools that make the journey successful personality development projection simple, manageable and memorable one.

    Table of Content

    Preface to the Second Edition
    Acknowledgements
    About the Author

    PART I: Concept and Dynamics of Personality Formation and Development
    1. A Peep into the Concept of Personality
    2. Factors and Reflectors of Personality
    3. The Dynamics of Personality Formation and Development
    4. The Model of a Successful Personality
    5. Principles and Strategy of Personality Development
    6. The Role of the Family in Personality Development
    7. The Role of Educational Institutes in Personality Development
    8. A Path to Self-Development PART II: Principles and Methods of Personality Projection
      1. The Principles of Personality Projection
      2. Personality Projection Through Various Means of Communication
      3. Intricacies of Dressing Up
      4. Self-Projection in Interviews, Group Discussions and Tests
      5. Self-Projection During Telecommunication, Video Conferences and Public Addresses
      6. Self-Projection in Job Roles
      7. How to Participate in a Meeting
      8. Social Etiquettes
      9. Time Management

      Chapter-wise Questionnaires

    Salient Features

    • Review Exercises in each chapter
    • Model questions and answers for self-development
    • Practical tips included
    • Chapter-wise questionnaires at the end



    Personality Development and Positive thinking

    While you are on your path to develop your personality, do it on a positive note and you will feel a world of a difference in the new you. Here are some techniques that can help you develop your personality and experience the effect of positivity in your life. Before you read on or do anything else, be happy with your present self and embrace yourself completely. Remember you are only one of a kind.

    Commit yourself
    For anything you plan to do, whether it is a job, writing a book or learning a new language you have to commit yourself to it. Commitment comes in the form of the doing the thing you want t do for a long period of time or very often. So if you want to be more positive you have to commit yourself to positivity. You have to start thinking positively and banish negative thoughts. Begin with your mind. Cleanse it. Since you are reading this commit yourself to personality development since personality does not star at the end of this article, any other course or book but it is an on-going process. So keep working on yourself. Remember, ‘the road to success is always under construction’.

    Focus
    Focus on the activity you are doing. True yoga is being one with the activity you are into at that moment. So if you are wearing clothes pay complete attention. If you are eating, do only that. Love your food completely. If you are washing vessels, be lost in the scrubbing. If you are talking to someone be present, don’t talk absent-mindedly. While you exercise, focus on the steps. Be one with your positive thoughts.

    Do not give up
    Never ever give up. Things can go wrong, mistakes happen and no one is flawless. So keep going. If you fall, rise and try again. Don’t let failures be a deterrent to your success. If you stop trying you put an end to your goal. But if you keep trying there are chances you will succeed. Do it with faith and believe in yourself. More than intelligence your persistence will take you places.

    Keep your ears and eyes open
    Always keep your eyes and ears open. Listen to what people say. Observe whatever is around you. Never give anything or anyone invisible treatment. Being alert helps you learn and keeps you informed. So if you are having a conversation with someone the next you know that you are in touch with your surroundings and can discuss anything under the sun. If you do not know something, say so. Asking questions that shows you have interest in the discussion and are listening.

    Love yourself
    If you are looking forward to develop your personality, the first thing you have to do is love yourself. Accept yourself. Accept everything that’s a part of you - your skin, your body, your ideas and everything else that makes you, you. Take care of yourself. Feed yourself and have a well- nourished body. Groom yourself and be well-dressed. Don’t forget to wear a smile. Be calm and relaxed. Mediate to calm down. Keep anger under check. Exercise regularly and engage in prayer. Accomplish your work and ear compliments.

    Personality development happens first from inside and then outside. So start treating your mind and body with special care. Develop positive thinking and turn into a new shining personality.

    Soft Skills Coordinates

    Welcome to Soft Skills Coordinates!!! We do many interesting things, mainly with soft skills. As a premier soft skills training institute, we offer candidates the coaching necessary to elevate those skills which add tangible value to their professional and personal lives. Candidates seeking employment add skills that are most desired by potential employers - for example, skills involving business communication, interviewing, problem solving, decision making, interpersonal communication and motivation necessary to work effectively in complex matrix organizations. Similarly, our corporate training courses are designed to help employed professionals rapidly adapt to performance and productivity driven work environments with confidence.

    Our passion includes sharing the secrets of success with our students and celebrating their growth. There is nothing more gratifying than watching students logically analyze problems they thought were almost impossible to resolve. Candidates visit our institute to explore guidance in remedying issues that hinder their personal and professional growth. Most of the times, it takes them only a few minutes to discover the real sources of such issues. But before we explain what we do in any further detail, it is worth the time to first understand what is meant by soft skills. This term is so widely used that we prefer to use the following scenario to illustrate the point.

    Soft Skills - A practical perspective

    In a globalized economy, and an accompanying shift from a manufacturing-based economy to a service - and information-based one, employers place high emphasis not only on the educational qualifications of its workforce but also on the abilities of its employees to meet customer service expectations. The customer in question could even be another employee from within the organization. Let’s look at this a little closely.

    At a minimum, one would expect the employee to possess superior communication skills and behavioral etiquette. The employee should have the ability to quickly understand the customer’s request and provide a satisfactory resolution. An employee gifted with the mental processes to translate a task (customer request) into simple subtasks and one who can tackle each subtask through logical actions is very likely to achieve positive results. Ideally, organizations would only want to retain such employees. If you are an employee, you will be evaluated using certain yardsticks, for example, performance and productivity, the business you generate or the number of clients you bring in for the organization. These results are easily quantifiable. But what about those attributes that are harder to quantify - your ability to connect with the customer or your ability to deal with the customer professionally? How about the goodwill you generate? These attributes or skills fall in the soft skills category. Employers (and even individuals) are fast realizing that such attributes are basic imperatives for conducting business seamlessly with customers or audiences with markedly different cultural backgrounds. After all, regardless of where your customer belongs to, you want to establish lasting business relationships.

    It would not be an exaggeration to state that to evolve your personality one needs to constantly exercise soft skills. Your personality represents far more than physical appearance, confidence and communication style. It also includes key behavioral patterns such as moods, willingness to cooperate, body language, and stress-managing ability. Among the intellectual attributes, it involves the ability to identify problems and willingness to solve them.

    Our Mission

    At Soft Skills Coordinates - "The Personality Development Institute" - we understand how soft skills shape our personality. We coach students through a very comprehensive curriculum to equip them with the confidence and personality traits necessary to achieve results consistently. Our mission is to transform how our candidates approach and resolve a problem or situation, and prepare them with extremely essential problem analysis, decision making, and communication techniques necessary to succeed in their careers and personal life. These candidates aim higher and can compete at a global level.

    Curriculum Goals

    Due to the extensive corporate experience of our instructors, it is our endeavour that students at the completion of our curriculum are better placed at understanding the Do’s/Don’ts of their functional role and work environment. Through our coaching on a wide array of soft skills, our students will be more adaptable to working in a highly performance-driven and result-oriented environment. They will exceed their employer's expectations.

    Our curriculum is designed for both fresh graduates as well as experienced employees. However, we feel equally confident that these courses offer valuable guidance to almost anyone who wishes to improve their communication and problem solving abilities.

    Our courses are designed to meet the following goals:

    • Help candidates examine their goals with greater clarity, build focus, boost

    confidence

    • Demystify problem comprehension and problem solving
    • Explain how to solve complex problems; introduce the concept of

    establishing benchmarks for success, and tracking progress against

    desired results

    • Prepare students with the essential protocols of effective communication.

    A large component of this coaching includes classroom Q&A sessions, one-

    on-one discussions and comparisons of effective and ineffective

    communication habits

    • Illustrate personal attributes required to get hired, remain hired, and

    manage one’s career while simultaneously weathering personal or

    professional challenges

    • Analyze root causes of job stress, suggest remedial techniques and

    pointers to improve productivity

    • Leadership skills development and executive coaching
    • Illustrate effective writing and public speaking methods

    Located in Bangalore, India, it is our endeavor to serve students from diverse educational backgrounds.

    Target Audience

    Our coaching is intended for individuals with functional roles that involve problem solving, customer support, hospitality, and any other role that includes effective communication or mentoring. It is particularly beneficial for those with long-term goals of self-growth.

    Organizations that would benefit directly through our training are corporations involved in R&D towards developing innovative products; companies from the service industry; brand-conscious entities with a vision to build employees' core competencies to achieve strategic goals of raising overall standards, staying competitive and improving productivity; educational institutions seeking training for faculty or students; hotels and hospitals, to name a few.

    Sunday, January 22, 2012

    Self Improvement Ideas

    Self Improvement Ideas


    10 Fantastic Questions To Help You Clarify Your Goals & Dreams



    More self improvement ideas.

    The first step of the Smart Goals Success Formula™ is this - you must know what it is that you want.

    Here are a number of fantastic questions you can use to figure out what it is that you want and so begin to create the life of your dreams.

    As you go through each question you may find it useful to remember the nine key life areas we have defined - health and fitness, career and work, relationships, social life, personal development,finances, quality of life, spirituality and contribution.

    Your answers,taken together, will form your vision. Once you have that you can then begin the exciting process of setting goals and making your vision become a reality.



    Read through the following ten questions:

    You do not need to answer them all.

    Just get a pen and paper and write down the answers to those questions that inspire you the most.


    1. What is it that you want to be?

    to have ? or

    to do?

    (You may like to download and print off the 101 Smartest Goals™ worksheet and record all your self improvement ideas in one place.


    2. If you could wave a magic wand over your life right now and have whatever it is that you want what would be there?


    3. If, from the moment you wake up tomorrow morning your life is just perfect, how will you know?


    4. What is it that you truly love?


    5. What do you want so much that it brings a big grin to your face just thinking about it?

    What makes you say 'Awesome'?


    6. What would your life look like if it included the things you love?


    7. What would your ideal life look like if there were no limitations?


    8. What would you love to do if you had all the money in the world?


    9. What would you do if you knew you could not fail?


    10. If you could just achieve one big goal what would it be?


    When you have finished answering the above questions you should have a very clear and exciting vision for your future.

    Well done.

    Now score your vision for your future on a scale of 1 to 10.

    It should be tremendously motivating and exciting for you.

    If it's not yet a 9 or 10 stop now and take as much time as you need to really make this perfect. Remember your vision should 'wow' you - so much so that you are willing to do whatever it takes to just get out there and create it!

    Once you have a clear and motivating vision for your future (all these self improvement ideas together on paper) you'll want to set yourself some really clear goals.

    I hope you have enjoyed answering these powerful questions.

    You'll find lots of self improvement ideas in books and on the internet but for me the most important is that you know what it is that you want from life overall.


    Practical Seduction: Some Conversation Tips For Men

    Practical Seduction: Some Conversation Tips For Men

    It is not only men who crave sex. Women equally are desirous of it. You only have to know how to tap such an opportunity. The first conversation is a very delicate occasion and should be managed well if you want more such interactions with her. If you don’t plan the first date you may lose her forever. Below are 10 tips which will help you attract woman no matter where you are.

    Initiate conversation with EVERY woman
    To deal with women what you need are just the basic social skills. This is a must for each one of you. Try to initiate a conversation with as many new people as possible without being biased about anybody. Every day I am sure you must be having opportunities to start a conversation. Utilize each one of these and then you will it very easy to start conversations with women. But it is good to speak interesting. If possible speak something that will make the other person happy or laugh. Try at least 5 conversations with people whom you don’t know for around 3 months and you will soon overcome fear of talking who is a stranger to you.

    Visit places where you can find women
    Most guys have such a routine in their life wherein they do not come across much woman. And yet they crib about being lonely. Hence it is necessary that you should take out time once in a while to visit places where you have many opportunities to approach an attractive woman. The best places are a coffee shop in a commercial area, restaurant with woman staff or a popular shopping mall. When you visit these place you will have a lot more chances of improving your skills at approaching women.

    Don’t hesitate to go out alone
    Many men want a company when they visit bars or clubs only because they feel that if they are lonely they will be judged as a loser or an introvert. But people I have known till date and who have been successful with woman have been those who go out alone. My advise hence is that, this weekend try out going alone to a club – not to watch women, but just to become aware that even if you are alone no one notices that. This will help you shun your prejudice against going out alone.

    Overcome you fear and inhibitions
    All men, including very attractive ones, have a lot of fears when they approach a woman. Some of these are fear f being not accepted, fear of being disliked, fear to make the first touch. These aren’t unique to you but it is generic for all. And it is possible for you to control them if you desire to do so. For this don’t give too much importance to a single instance or start thinking about the long term scene when you are just beginning. Yes you may be rejected a few times, but in the process you are improving your skill and one day you will surely be successful with women.

    Avoid the “Negative Trap”
    What is usual reaction of men when they see a hot woman? They start thinking negative. They just become stupefied or start thinking ways not to approach her. They either start thinking about what compliment to give her, or they think her being single as an impossibility or fear that she might react unfavorably towards them. Worse, some might even consider themselves not to be worthy of the woman. Keep away from traps, because once you enter them you will build a negative aura around you which will keep on increasing with time. So don’t think much about how to start a conversation – just be normal and keep it simple.

    Adhere to the tips about how to start talking
    The moment you see an attractive girl in which you are interested, which you’d like to seduce – approach her within 3 seconds. Any delay more than this and you will never have the guts to approach and talk to her. Say something rather than just being silent. At worst what can happen is that she will reject you. But that will not be the end of the world to you. There will be other girls whom you can approach. So every opportunity has something from which you can learn. Keep in mind these points and just chat up with whomever you find hot.

    Glide smoothly through the first moments of conversation
    Most men are unaware of the fact that it is woman’s persona that needs to be handled when you are talking to her for the very first time. A woman will be always seek to block any thing from you and gain a control over the whole matter. What she wants least is things to hot up between you which she fears that might degrade her in your opinion. Even though she might find you irresistible, she will show the exact opposite and show a distaste for you. Some women become jittery when in the company of a guy whom they like. So don’t read too much into any of these indications. Patience and perseverance are two virtues you should have in ample amount in this regard.

    Discover her unconventional persona
    Every woman has a side that is little crazy and absolutely not expected of her. What you need to do is discover her “crazy” part of personality and then address that part. Tease her or give her nick names which wil make her realize that she can open up to you and display her crazy part. The whole idea is that she should reach a comfort level with you wherein she doesn’t shy to show her crazy persona to you. When she comes to know that you are exactly what her unconventional personality is she will be very frank to you. It is at this point when the real bonding between both of you starts setting in.

    Be positive
    We as humans have this tendency to jump to conclusions. If the first attempt ends up failure we think we are failures. If subsequent attempts too end up like that, we become absolute convinced that we are wasting time because we are not capable of it. You start doubting your own capabilities and it reflects in your personality too. Many men who have failed at a few attempts in conversing with women that it is something terribly wrong in their own nature that is preventing them from being with women. They write themselves off. But remember that failures are the stepping stones to success. So cultivate an attitude wherein you believe that you have reached very close to success and will achieve your goal soon. Just try out this and I guarantee you that you will be pleasantly surprised at the results

    Plan your strategy and practice it
    If you are starting to converse with women, you should go over your plans and carefully rehearse before the actual D day. Plan every minute detail as to what you are going to talk and her possible reactions and your own responses to them. Take all your time in strategizing and rehearsing it. Also plan the tone of your voice and the body language you will show her. Hope for the best but also plan for worst scenario. This will give you confidence. So now the implementation will throw no surprises to you.

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    12 steps to improve your personality

    Personality is defined as the cumulative traits in human character. It is very surprising to note that even the best looking person can have an ugly personality. Now-a-days personality development is the principal topic in the classes of communication management. Youth of our society have great interest in knowing things about personality development because they carry the notion that key to their success lies in improving the aspects of personality.

    Failure of personality results in frustration. When you fail to communicate about the positive sides of your personality, it results in frustration. Frustration is the natural outcome of the failure of your personality.

    Personality consists of your clothing, behavior, etiquette and amicable communication with others. It is helpful in expressing your hidden talents. You may be gifted but if your personality is not animated, the outcome will be disappointing for all.

    A powerful personality attracts others like magnet. It creates a space for you in every one’s heart.

    12 steps to improve your personality

    • Your dressing sense – Make sure you wear clothes fitting with the occasions. Suitable clothing fitting with the demands of occasions draws interest of people in you. A well-dressed person is liked by all.
    • Be gentle and soft spoken- Your voice is the mirror of your personality. Apply gentleness in it and avoid saying rude things. Appreciate the good things in other people. Your smiling mien is the first step to success. Keep your balance when you speak. Always steer clear of controversy. Be very selective with your words. This will bring appreciation from others.
    • Appreciate and praise others- While you appreciate others, it shows your good nature. In case you find good qualities in others, praise the persons without getting jealous. Encourage and congratulate others when you find they have done something really good. Appreciation and praise are the natural ways to create your position in the lives of people you love.
    • Hide your pride and egotism- Be cautious in hiding your pride and ego while you interact with others. Such evil traits naturally become transparent, while you rise in self-actualization. Keep your inner consciousness for this alive.
    • Avoid expressing envy and bitter criticism- Envy is the extreme end of admiration. So better if you admire people without getting envious. When you are jealous and angry, you ultimately damage your personality. Control your envy with out letting it out in your nature.
    • Stay away from deceptiveness, lies and cheating- Deceptiveness and other immoralities are not qualities of diplomacy. These qualities rather harm you without boosting up the prospects of your life. In the long run, you get reviled and defamed.
    • Be positive in your thoughts- Thoughts are the real foundations of your personality. Keep the thoughts positive and nature cordial. There are qualified individuals who do not get acclaimed for their talents because of negative thoughts. Healthy mentality and positive thoughts make your personality successful.
    • Keep away anger and irritation- Anger and irritation are the natural barriers in your personality for success. Unless you control such things, these become ingrained in your nature. Anger and irritation spoil relationships with others.
    • Serve and help others if you can- For social recognition, serving and helping the people in need are also a major step towards making your personality popular. It shows your sense of undertaking important responsibilities for the sake of social causes. Helping the poor, down trodden and needy human beings create your favorable image in the society.
    • Be punctual- Punctuality is helpful for a successful personality. It makes you one extra-ordinary human-being among others. You get noticed due to your promptness
    • Be mindful about the worth of time- Be mindful of the fact that time is money. Wasting time in unnecessary activities devalue your personality to a greater extent. Learn to make use of every bit of time in your hand.
    • Be conscious about your self- Understand your own self. Stay away from dropping names about people you know and your contacts. Your talent and merits can only bring you recognition and make you popular.
    • Adopt the good qualities from others- Make your best efforts to learn from others. Listen patiently to the words of worthy people to discover the content of life-building-material in it. Such thing is useful in making your personality popular.

    leadership development exercises and games

    leadership development exercises and games

    The are various games and exercises on the free team building games section that work well for demonstrating, assessing and developing leadership. See particularly the 'leading or managing' exercise, which is a flexible activity for illustrating the differences between managing and leading. As regards leadership exercises for experiential development of leadership abilities, focus on the leadership challenge of leading and managing a team - the task itself is secondary - so virtually any team game is suitable provided you give each leader a team of four or more people to lead. The more people, the bigger the test of leadership. You do not need a complicated exercise to create a leadership challenge. The leadership challenge is produced by having to organise, plan and motivate a team of people. In fact, if the task is too complex it will obscure the team leadership issues, by distracting from or hampering leadership skills and qualities. For leadership development choose exercises that includes an enjoyable and achievable challenge - even very basic games like newspaper towers will be a good test of leadership if you create teams of four or more for the leader to lead. Use games that you feel will produce variety, fun and a mixture of activities. The round tables exercise is particularly suitable to test and develop leadership skills. Choose a mixture of exercises which encourage the leaders think about using a different approach, and different people's strengths, for each challenge.

    Great leadership quotes and inspirational quotes

    Great leadership quotes and inspirational quotes

    Some of these quotes are available as free motivational posters.

    "People ask the difference between a leader and a boss.... The leader works in the open, and the boss in covert. The leader leads and the boss drives." (Theodore Roosevelt)

    "The marksman hitteth the target partly by pulling, partly by letting go. The boatsman reacheth the landing partly by pulling, partly by letting go." (Egyptian proverb)

    "No man is fit to command another that cannot command himself." (William Penn)

    "It is amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the credit." (President Harry S Truman)

    "I not only use all the brains I have, but all I can borrow." (Woodrow Wilson)

    "What should it profit a man if he would gain the whole world yet lose his soul." (The Holy Bible, Mark 8:36)

    "A dream is just a dream. A goal is a dream with a plan and a deadline." (Harvey Mackay)

    "Ideas are like rabbits. You get a couple, learn how to look after them, and pretty soon you have a dozen." (John Steinbeck)

    "I keep six honest serving-men, They taught me all I knew; Their names are What and Why and When, And How and Where and Who." (Rudyard Kipling, from 'Just So Stories', 1902.)

    "A dwarf standing on the shoulders of a giant may see farther than the giant himself." (Didacus Stella, circa AD60 - and, as a matter of interest, abridged on the edge of an English £2 coin)

    "Integrity without knowledge is weak and useless, and knowledge without integrity is dangerous and dreadful." (Samuel Johnson 1709-84)

    "The most important thing in life is not to capitalise on your successes - any fool can do that. The really important thing is to profit from your mistakes." (William Bolitho, from 'Twelve against the Gods')

    "Out of the night that covers me, Black as the pit from pole to pole, I thank whatever gods may be, For my unconquerable soul. In the fell clutch of circumstance, I have not winced nor cried aloud: Under the bludgeonings of chance my head is bloody but unbowed . . . . . It matters not how strait the gait, how charged with punishments the scroll, I am the master of my fate: I am the captain of my soul." (WE Henley, 1849-1903, from 'Invictus')

    "Everybody can get angry - that's easy. But getting angry at the right person, with the right intensity, at the right time, for the right reason and in the right way - that's hard." (Aristotle)

    "Management means helping people to get the best out of themselves, not organising things." (Lauren Appley)

    "It's not the critic who counts, not the one who points out how the strong man stumbled or how the doer of deeds might have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena; whose face is marred with the sweat and dust and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs and comes up short again and again; who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions and spends himself in a worthy cause and who, at best knows the triumph of high achievement and who at worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat." (Theodore Roosevelt.)

    "Behind an able man there are always other able men." (Chinese Proverb.)

    "I praise loudly. I blame softly." (Catherine the Great, 1729-1796.)

    "Experto Credite." ("Trust one who has proved it." Virgil, 2,000 years ago.)

    More leadership and inspirational quotes

    See also the free motivational posters for leadership quotes.

    Leadership behaviours and development of leadership style and skills

    Leadership behaviours and development of leadership style and skills

    Leadership skills are based on leadership behaviour. Skills alone do not make leaders - style and behaviour do. If you are interested in leadership training and development - start with leadership behaviour.

    The growing awareness and demand for idealist principles in leadership are increasing the emphasis (in terms of leadership characteristics) on business ethics, corporate responsibility, emotional maturity, personal integrity, and what is popularly now known as the 'triple bottom line' (abbreviated to TBL or 3BL, representing 'profit, people, planet').

    For many people (staff, customers, suppliers, investors, commentators, visionaries, etc) these are becoming the most significant areas of attitude/behaviour/appreciation required in modern business and organisational leaders.

    3BL (triple bottom line - profit, people, planet) also provides an excellent multi-dimensional framework for explaining, developing and assessing leadership potential and capability, and also links strongly with psychology aspects if for instance psychometrics (personality testing) features in leadership selection and development methods: each of us is more naturally inclined to one or the other (profit, people, planet) by virtue of our personality, which can be referenced to Jung, Myers Briggs, etc.

    Much debate persists as to the validity of 'triple bottom line accounting', since standards and measures are some way from being clearly defined and agreed, but this does not reduce the relevance of the concept, nor the growing public awareness of it, which effectively and continuously re-shapes markets and therefore corporate behaviour. Accordingly leaders need to understand and respond to such huge attitudinal trends, whether they can be reliably accounted for or not at the moment.

    Adaptability and vision - as might be demonstrated via project development scenarios or tasks - especially involving modern communications and knowledge technologies - are also critical for certain leadership roles, and provide unlimited scope for leadership development processes, methods and activities.

    Cultural diversity is another topical and very relevant area requiring leadership involvement, if not mastery. Large organisations particularly must recognise that the market-place, in terms of staff, customers and suppliers, is truly global now, and leaders must be able to function and appreciate and adapt to all aspects of cultural diversification. A leaders who fails to relate culturally well and widely and openly inevitably condemns the entire organisation to adopt the same narrow focus and bias exhibited by the leader.

    Bear in mind that different leadership jobs (and chairman) require different types of leaders - Churchill was fine for war but not good for peacetime re-building. There's a big difference between short-term return on investment versus long-term change. Each warrants a different type of leadership style, and actually very few leaders are able to adapt from one to the other. (Again see the personality styles section: short-term results and profit require strong Jungian 'thinking' orientation, or frontal left brain dominance; whereas long-term vision and change require 'intuition' orientation, or frontal right brain dominance).

    If it's not clear already, leadership is without doubt mostly about behaviour, especially towards others. People who strive for these things generally come to be regarded and respected as a leader by their people:

    • Integrity - the most important requirement; without it everything else is for nothing.
    • Having an effective appreciation and approach towards corporate responsibility, (Triple Bottom Line, Fair Trade, etc), so that the need to make profit is balanced with wider social and environmental responsibilities.
    • Being very grown-up - never getting emotionally negative with people - no shouting or ranting, even if you feel very upset or angry.
    • Leading by example - always be seen to be working harder and more determinedly than anyone else.
    • Helping alongside your people when they need it.
    • Fairness - treating everyone equally and on merit.
    • Being firm and clear in dealing with bad or unethical behaviour.
    • Listening to and really understanding people, and show them that you understand (this doesn't mean you have to agree with everyone - understanding is different to agreeing).
    • Always taking the responsibility and blame for your people's mistakes.
    • Always giving your people the credit for your successes.
    • Never self-promoting.
    • Backing-up and supporting your people.
    • Being decisive - even if the decision is to delegate or do nothing if appropriate - but be seen to be making fair and balanced decisions.
    • Asking for people's views, but remain neutral and objective.
    • Being honest but sensitive in the way that you give bad news or criticism.
    • Always doing what you say you will do - keeping your promises.
    • Working hard to become expert at what you do technically, and at understanding your people's technical abilities and challenges.
    • Encouraging your people to grow, to learn and to take on as much as they want to, at a pace they can handle.
    • Always accentuating the positive (say 'do it like this', not 'don't do it like that').
    • Smiling and encouraging others to be happy and enjoy themselves.
    • Relaxing - breaking down the barriers and the leadership awe - and giving your people and yourself time to get to know and respect each other.
    • Taking notes and keeping good records.
    • Planning and prioritising.
    • Managing your time well and helping others to do so too.
    • Involving your people in your thinking and especially in managing change.
    • Reading good books, and taking advice from good people, to help develop your own understanding of yourself, and particularly of other people's weaknesses (some of the best books for leadership are not about business at all - they are about people who triumph over adversity).
    • Achieve the company tasks and objectives, while maintaining your integrity, the trust of your people, are a balancing the corporate aims with the needs of the world beyond.

    Traditional leadership tips - jack welch style..

    Traditional leadership tips - jack welch style..

    Jack Welch, respected business leader and writer is quoted as proposing these fundamental leadership principles (notably these principles are expanded in his 2001 book 'Jack: Straight From The Gut'):

    1. There is only one way - the straight way. It sets the tone of the organisation.
    2. Be open to the best of what everyone, everywhere, has to offer; transfer learning across your organisation.
    3. Get the right people in the right jobs - it is more important than developing a strategy.
    4. An informal atmosphere is a competitive advantage.
    5. Make sure everybody counts and everybody knows they count.
    6. Legitimate self-confidence is a winner - the true test of self-confidence is the courage to be open.
    7. Business has to be fun - celebrations energise and organisation.
    8. Never underestimate the other guy.
    9. Understand where real value is added and put your best people there.
    10. Know when to meddle and when to let go - this is pure instinct.

    As a leader, your main priority is to get the job done, whatever the job is. Leaders make things happen by:

    • knowing your objectives and having a plan how to achieve them
    • building a team committed to achieving the objectives
    • helping each team member to give their best efforts

    As a leader you must know yourself. Know your own strengths and weaknesses, so that you can build the best team around you.

    However - always remember the philosophical platform - this ethical platform is not a technique or a process - it's the foundation on which all the techniques and methodologies are based.

    Plan carefully, with your people where appropriate, how you will achieve your aims. You may have to redefine or develop your own new aims and priorities. Leadership can be daunting for many people simply because no-one else is issuing the aims - leadership often means you have to create your own from a blank sheet of paper. Set and agree clear standards. Keep the right balance between 'doing' yourself and managing others 'to do'.

    Build teams. Ensure you look after people and that communications and relationships are good. Select good people and help them to develop. Develop people via training and experience, particularly by agreeing objectives and responsibilities that will interest and stretch them, and always support people while they strive to improve and take on extra tasks. Follow the rules about delegation closely - this process is crucial. Ensure that your managers are applying the same principles. Good leadership principles must cascade down through the whole organisation. This means that if you are leading a large organisation you must check that the processes for managing, communicating and developing people are in place and working properly.

    Communication is critical. Listen, consult, involve, explain why as well as what needs to be done.

    Some leaders lead by example and are very 'hands on'; others are more distanced and let their people do it. Whatever - your example is paramount - the way you work and conduct yourself will be the most you can possibly expect from your people. If you set low standards you are to blame for low standards in your people.

    "... Praise loudly, blame softly." (Catherine the Great). Follow this maxim.

    If you seek one singlemost important behaviour that will rapidly earn you respect and trust among your people, this is it: Always give your people the credit for your achievements and successes. Never take the credit yourself - even if it's all down to you, which would be unlikely anyway. You must however take the blame and accept responsibility for any failings or mistakes that your people make. Never never never publicly blame another person for a failing. Their failing is your responsibility - true leadership offers is no hiding place for a true leader.

    Take time to listen to and really understand people. Walk the job. Ask and learn about what people do and think, and how they think improvements can be made.

    Accentuate the positive. Express things in terms of what should be done, not what should not be done. If you accentuate the negative, people are more likely to veer towards it. Like the mother who left her five-year-old for a minute unsupervised in the kitchen, saying as she left the room, "...don't you go putting those beans up your nose..."

    Have faith in people to do great things - given space and air and time, everyone can achieve more than they hope for. Provide people with relevant interesting opportunities, with proper measures and rewards and they will more than repay your faith.

    Take difficult decisions bravely, and be truthful and sensitive when you implement them.

    Constantly seek to learn from the people around you - they will teach you more about yourself than anything else. They will also tell you 90% of what you need to know to achieve your business goals.

    Embrace change, but not for change's sake. Begin to plan your own succession as soon as you take up your new post, and in this regard, ensure that the only promises you ever make are those that you can guarantee to deliver.

    Here are some processes and tips for training and developing leadership.

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    In the modern age good leaders are an enabling force, helping people and organizations to perform and develop, which implies that a sophisticated alignment be achieved - of people's needs, and the aims of the organization.

    The traditional concept of a leader being the directing chief at the top of a hierachy is nowadays a very incomplete appreciation of what true leadership must be.

    Effective leadership does not necessarily require great technical or intellectual capacity. These attributes might help, but they are not pivotal.

    Good leadership in the modern age more importantly requires attitudes and behaviours which characterise and relate to humanity.

    The concept of serving is fundamental to the leadership role. Good leadership involves serving the organization or group and the people within it. Ineffective leaders tend to invert this principle and consider merely that the leader must be served by the people. This faulty idea fosters the notion that leadership as an opportunity to take: to acquire personal status, advantage, gain, etc., at the expense of others, which is grossly wrong. Leadership is instead an opportunity to give; to serve the organization, and crucially the people too. The modern notions of 'servant leader' and 'servant leadership' are attributed to Robert K Greenleaf (in his 1970 essay The Servant as Leader) however the philosophy and concept of leadership being a serving function rather than one that is served, is very old indeed and found in ancient civilisations and religious writings.

    Leadership is centrally concerned with people. Of course leadership involves decisions and actions relating to all sorts of other things, but leadership is special compared to any other role because of its unique responsibilty for people - i.e., the followers of the leader - in whatever context leadership is seen to operate.

    Many capabilities in life are a matter of acquiring skills and knowledge and then applying them in a reliable way. Leadership is quite different. Good leadership demands emotional strengths and behavioural characteristics which can draw deeply on a leader's mental and spiritual reserves.

    The leadership role is an inevitable reflection of people's needs and challenges in modern life. Leadership is therefore a profound concept, with increasingly complex implications, driven by an increasingly complex and fast-changing world.

    Leadership and management are commonly seen as the same thing, which they are not. Leadership is also misunderstood to mean directing and instructing people and making important decisions on behalf of an organization. Effective leadership is much more than these.

    Good leaders are followed chiefly because people trust and respect them, rather than the skills they possess. Leadership is about behaviour first, skills second.

    This is a simple way to see how leadership is different to management:

    • Management is mostly about processes.
    • Leadership is mostly about behaviour.

    We could extend this to say:

    • Management relies heavily on tangible measurable capabilities such as effective planning; the use of organizational systems; and the use of appropriate communications methods.
    • Leadership involves many management skills, but generally as a secondary or background function of true leadership. Leadership instead relies most strongly on less tangible and less measurable things like trust, inspiration, attitude, decision-making, and personal character. These are not processes or skills or even necessarily the result of experience. They are facets of humanity, and are enabled mainly by the leader's character and especially his/her emotional reserves.

    Another way to see leadership compared with management, is that leadership does not crucially depend on the type of management methods and processes a leaders uses; leadership instead primarily depends on the ways in which the leader uses management methods and processes.

    Good leadership depends on attitudinal qualities, not management processes.

    Humanity is a way to describe these qualities, because this reflects the leader's vital relationship with people.

    Qualities critical for a leader's relationship with his/her people are quite different to conventional skills and processes:

    examples of highly significant leadership qualities

    • integrity
    • honesty
    • humility
    • courage
    • commitment
    • sincerity
    • passion
    • confidence
    • positivity
    • wisdom
    • determination
    • compassion
    • sensitivity

    People with these sort of behaviours and attitudes tend to attract followers. Followers are naturally drawn to people who exhibit strength and can inspire belief in others. These qualities tend to produce a charismatic effect. Charisma tends to result from effective leadership and the qualities which enable effective leadership. Charisma is by itself no guarantee of effective leadership.

    Some people are born more naturally to leadership than others. Most people don't seek to be a leader, but many more people are able to lead, in one way or another and in one situation or another, than they realize.

    People who want to be a leader can develop leadership ability. Leadership is not the exclusive preserve of the wealthy and educated.

    Leadership is a matter of personal conviction and believing strongly in a cause or aim, whatever it is.

    Leadership sometimes comes to people later in life, and this is no bad thing. Humanity tends to be generational characteristic. There is no real obstacle to people who seek to become leaders if leadership is approached with proper integrity. Anyone can be a leader if he/she is suitably driven to a particular cause.

    And many qualities of effective leadership, like confidence and charisma, continue to grow from experience in the leadership role. Even initially surprised modest leaders can become great ones, and sometimes the greatest ones.

    Leadership can be performed with different styles. Some leaders have one style, which is right for certain situations and wrong for others. Some leaders can adapt and use different leadership styles for given situations.

    Adaptability of style is an increasingly significant aspect of leadership, because the world is increasingly complex and dynamic. Adaptability stems from objectivity, which in turn stems from emotional security and emotional maturity. Again these strengths are not dependent on wealth or education, or skills or processes.

    Good leaders typically have a keen understanding of relationships within quite large and complex systems and networks. This may be from an intuitive angle, or a technical/learned angle, or both.

    A very useful way to explore this crucial aspect of leadership with respect to wider relationships and systems is offered by the Psychological Contract and how that theory relates to organizations and leadership.

    People new to leadership (and supervision and management) often feel under pressure to lead in a particularly dominant way. Sometimes this pressure on a new leader to impose their authority on the team comes from above. Dominant leadership is rarely appropriate however, especially for mature teams. Misreading this situation, and attempting to be overly dominant, can then cause problems for a new leader. Resistance from the team becomes a problem, and a cycle of negative behaviours and reducing performance begins. Much of leadership is counter-intuitive. Leadership is often more about serving than leading. Besides which, individuals and teams tend not to resist or push against something in which they have a strong involvement/ownership/sense of control. People tend to respond well to thanks, encouragement, recognition, inclusiveness, etc. Tough, overly dominant leadership gives teams a lot to push against and resist. It also prevents a sense of ownership and self-control among the people being led. And it also inhibits the positive rewards and incentives (thanks, recognition, encouragement, etc) vital for teams and individuals to cope with change, and to enjoy themselves. Leaders of course need to be able to make tough decisions when required, but most importantly leaders should concentrate on enabling the team to thrive, which is actually a 'serving' role, not the dominant 'leading' role commonly associated with leadership.

    Today ethical leadership is more important than ever. The world is more transparent and connected than it has ever been. The actions and philosophies of organisations are scrutinised by the media and the general public as never before. This coincides with massively increased awareness and interest among people everywhere in corporate responsibility and the many related concepts, such as social and community responsibility (see the ethical leadership and ethical organisations page). The modern leader needs to understand and aspire to leading people and achieving greatness in all these areas.

    Here is (was..) an Excellent 30 minute BBC Radio 4 Discussion about Modern Leadership - (first broadcast 2 Sept 2006, part of the 'Sound Advice' series). Its mere existence is evidence of changed attitudes to leadership. Such a programme would not have warranted BBC airtime a generation ago due to lack of audience interest. Today there is huge awareness of, and interest in, more modern leadership methods. The radio discussion highlighted the need for effective modern leaders to have emotional strength and sensitivity, far beyond traditional ideas of more limited autocratic leadership styles. I'm sorry (if still) this linked item is unavailable from the BBC website, especially if the recording is lost forever in the BBC's archives. If you know a suitably influential executive at the Beeb who can liberate it please contact me.

    Incidentally as a quick case-study, the BBC illustrates an important aspect of leadership, namely philosophy.

    Philosophy (you could call it 'fundamental purpose') is the foundation on which to build strategy, management, operational activities, and pretty well everything else that happens in an organization.

    Whatever the size of the organization, operational activities need to be reconcilable with a single congruent (fitting, harmonious) philosophy.

    Executives, managers, staff, customers, suppliers, stakeholders, etc., need solid philosophical principles (another term would be a 'frame of reference') on which to base their expectations, decisions and actions. In a vast complex organization like the BBC, leadership will be very challenging at the best of times due to reasons of size, diversity, political and public interest, etc. Having a conflicting philosophy dramatically increases these difficulties for everyone, not least the leader, because the frame of reference is confusing.

    For leadership to work well, people (employees and interested outsiders) must be able to connect their expectations, aims and activities to a basic purpose or philosophy of the organization. This foundational philosophy should provide vital reference points for employees' decisions and actions - an increasingly significant factor in modern 'empowered' organizations. Seeing a clear philosophy and purpose is also essential for staff, customers and outsiders in assessing crucial organizational characteristics such as integrity, ethics, fairness, quality and performance. A clear philosophy is vital to the 'psychological contract' - whether stated or unstated (almost always unstated) - on which people (employees, customers or observers) tend to judge their relationships and transactions.

    The BBC is an example (it's not the only one) of an organization which has a confusing organizational philosophy. At times it is inherently conflicting. For example: Who are its owners? Who are its customers? What are its priorities and obligations? Are its commercial operations a means to an end, or an end in themselves? Is its main aim to provide commercial mainstream entertainment, or non-commercial education and information? Is it a public service, or is it a commercial provider? Will it one day be privatised in part or whole? If so will this threaten me or benefit me? As an employee am I sharing in something, or being exploited? As a customer (if the description is apt) am I also an owner? Or am I funding somebody else's gravy train? What are the organization's obligations to the state and to government?

    Given such uncertainties, not only is there a very unclear basic philosophy and purpose, but also, it's very difficult to achieve consistency for leadership messages to staff and customers. Also, how can staff and customers align their efforts and expectations with such confusing aims and principles?

    The BBC is just an example. There are many organizations, large and small, with conflicting and confusing fundamental aims. The lesson is that philosophy - or underpinning purpose - is the foundation on which leadership (for strategy, management, motivation, everything) is built. If the foundation is not solid and viable, and is not totally congruent with what follows, then everything built onto it is prone to wobble, and at times can fall over completely.

    Get the philosophy right - solid and in harmony with the activities - and the foundation is strong.

    Again, the Psychological Contract provides a helpful perspective for aligning people and organizational philosopy.

    This of course gives rise to the question of what to do if you find yourself leading a team or organization which lacks clarity of fundamental philosophy and purpose, and here lies an inescapable difference between managing and leading:

    As a leader your responsibility extends beyond leading the people. True leadership also includes - as far as your situation allows - the responsibility to protect or refine fundamental purpose and philosophy.

    See also the notes and processes for incorporating fundamental philosophy within strategic business development and marketing.